Tuesday, July 2, 2013

True friends

Hello guys this is my new blog cause i lost the previous one. So yeap feels good to be back.

Friendships

Ever wonder how life will be without friendship ? There are many different types of friends out there and today I'm going to introduce my friends. These are the few that I can't live without.



This is obviously my best-est girlfriend DOREEN SEA in secondary 4, we met through our CCA and became close. We shared common interest and always do crazy stuffs together. We quarrel sometimes but never fail to get back normal again. She's like one in a million of true friends that fit perfectly for me. As exaggerating as it may sounds, I'm serious. Of course I have a lot more of true friends with me. And I'll not forget to mention my closest friend, Gladys which is in our clique. I've so little to type for this bitch because obviously in my previous blog I've said enough.
Of course, what's teenage life when you don't have cliques? I have my cliques, "toottoot" this all started by me wanting to contact them in a easier way and created a chat group and adding them in. Not knowing the names to put, i started the chatgroup as "toot toot" then this fantastic story of ours began, previously we were tgt too in cliques but it didn't turn out well cause one of em drifted from us. But still all the best to her too. I never laughed so happily before i met them. Really. (Include my boyfriend) These people made me changed a lot, from a girl that rebels almost everything to a girl that obey things. That's an improvement you see. I guess this is what they call " Friends Influence " if i continued hanging out with my bad company, I might not be who I am today. I've learnt a lot and became much more sensible of stuffs I'm doing, so..I thank each and everyone of them that brings me out of my dark world.



I have this smart friend, really smart friend. She always aim for perfection and studies very hard. Then there's me, a lazy bum that never really studies and always pressure myself. On this fine day of  my sec3 life, this smart girl sat next to me. She didn't smile. Neither do I. " Hi what's your name?" that's the first thing I said to her. " YiZheng" she said then she turned back and kept quiet again. I kept starting conversations kept on pestering her throughout lessons on how to do maths and stuffs. Then soon, we became close. Our friendship is pretty special, we communicate through violence. I got blue blacks all over. But she don't. ( not cause I'm weak ok) We then made many stuffs together , she made cute boxes for us to put mobiles in class, i bought floral box to use as our snack box in class and we both contribute snacks and tidbits to it. Just like this, we became close and share plenty of our secrets and laugh at lame jokes. She constantly motivates me and tries to cheer me up by saying mean things so i'll laugh. Sometimes i came to class sad because of quarrels with family/boyfriend and she will be there to share my woes. ( Altough she laughed at me for crying ) True friends don't come by easy and i guess, I'm lucky because I've found one more. 


Besides them, I have my fellow YTSA, these people also changed me. They made me to be more outspoken , much more braver than before and I've obtained many leadership skills. They made me feel that I'm not alone and it's like we are one big family. During our ups and downs, we are there for one another and helping each other. This picture is just some of them because this is was taken on instructors' camp.


This is my boyfriend, Denis, must be wondering why he is in this blog post of friends. Well, being in a relationship is not just about being a couple. This guy, is my best friend, soul mate and whatever you can think of to be labelled as a true friend. We share problems to each other like how BFFs do, play fighting , bicker, joke around and call each other mean names that we don't mean it. We don't always have to be together 24/7 because we know physically and mentally we're there for one another. We don't always go lovey-dovey because we know deep down we love each other. He tolerated my ultra bad temper even when he himself is hot tempered too. He stick with me through thick and thins and always take in my craps. I don't know how far we could go but surely this is the best relationship in my life till now. I thank my boyfriend , true friend, best friend, soul mate, listener, adviser, lover, tutor, joker for being with me through these days, months, years.